Ex

Do you know that what is ex? I believe that majority of you know its meaning. It means previous one.

Today I would like to share this topic with you guys. I knew this from one of my friends, Caster. One day, she convinced her good friend who had just quarreled with her boyfriend. The boyfriend was her ex-boyfriend. Of course, they talked nonsense as this was their style. Finally, what Caster said shocked me since I had never thought that she could be that matured.

This was what Caster said 'Actually, I don't agree to recover with our ex unless certain criteria are matched. This is because even we recover with him/her, we will still have problem and it ends up breaking once more. Don't forget, he/she is our ex, which means that we had problems last time and thus the ending was like this. Don't ever think that ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend knows us better. Yes, they do but the problems are still there remaining unsolved. Do you notice that ex can chase us easier and the shield is slightly weaker against our ex? Maybe you would want to continue your relationship with him/her because you really enjoyed it last time but this was just up to the appearance of the problems. Maybe you can bluff yourself that you can tolerate with him/her or he/she has changed but ask yourself once again, is this really happening? Or you just want to lie yourself temporarily or even whole life? Picking life partner is a crucial matter and we have to be serious on it. If the problems are still there, there is no point for you to recover with him/her as the ending is still the same. Then, why not you try to observe someone around you who is loving you so much?'

Even though she is three years younger than me, I think that she is more matured than me. I totally agree with what she said, then how about you? Does it sound the same to you? I agree with her because there must be at least a cause to break a relationship, if it is unsolved, then it will appear sooner or later.